Come clean with dirty talk
“You know I call you, I call you on the telephone
I’m only hopin’ that you’re home
So I can hear you
When you say those words to me
And whisper so softly
I’ve gotta hear you
Cause baby we’ll be…
Talk dirty to me!”
Talking dirty may be still considered somewhat taboo, but so what? It’s so fun! Dirty talk doesn’t just have to be a substitute for physical intimacy, in fact It’s an art all by itself.
Getting to a level of erotic intimacy on the phone is a delicious way to get to know someone on a deeper level and for them to feel secure enough to reveal some of their more guarded fantasies too.
Getting there is part of the fun! Being a trustworthy friend and letting them know these sexy conversations will never reach any other ears but the two of you, will help your partner let their guard down. When you are in the chat room in search of local singles, a few well-chosen words and tone of voice can set the scene for seduction and intimacy. Keep it light and with a hint of mischievous flirtation, try to avoid the heavy panting of the 1970’s style obscene phone cal.l
Remember this is an adventure the two of you are sharing, so be a good listener, gently persuade them to reveal a little more and a little more about what arouses them as you do the same. Think of it as a strip tease on the phone! You should never laugh at or make fun of their secret desires and tell them you expect the same. You can even dress up, or prepare your surroundings with erotic lighting like candles, sensuous fabrics like satin and some evocative fragrance as well. Talking dirty never sounded so good as when it comes from a sexy playful partner like you!
Play safe kiddies and always be sexy!