Naughty or Nice?
Well my little Ho, Ho Hoers, it’s getting close to that time when we ask; have you been naughty or nice this year? Isn’t it fun to be a little of both? We certainly like our romantic partners to be a bit more naughty than nice. How about adding a little pumpkin spice to your love life and be a bit more naughty?
Easier said than done you say? Here are some awesome tips for stuffing their stocking, or getting yours stuffed, with all things naughty!
Keep an open mind and an open…er ahem…whatever might allow your free flow of naughtiness to come through and have a delicious scamper through a new adventure. Whether you are in chat rooms, seeking local singles to get naughty with or adding nasty naughtiness to your current play list with your lover or lovers, we can all be a little bit naughtier as long as we are nice in public.
Always remember, life is an adventure and a ride on a peppermint stick is always sweet!
“Go on the Prowl
Make a regular date night extra exciting by letting your inner bad girl run the show. Get a bikini wax and a manicure in a deep, vampy shade. Send a risqué text or email to your mate early in the day, wear slinky lingerie to dinner, give him a peek at unexpectedly bare thighs over stockings, or hand him your panties on the way back from the restroom. It’s so wanton and unladylike, he’ll love it—and according to my seductive sources, you will too.
A friend and her husband often use role-play to get in the mood. At bedtime she might say to her man, “Hey Mister, you look like a guy who has a hot wife.” Then he’ll look her up and down and say, “I do have a hot wife, but she’s not as hot as you.” Then the two “strangers” go on to have a passionate night. To heighten the illusion of newness, create a sexy scenario and dress the part—a blonde wig, cowboy hat, pirate eye patch, tall boots, whatever—if it doesn’t turn you on, at least you’ll share a good laugh
Host a Quickie
Only got a few minutes? Slip an invitation into your guy’s back pocket or dinner napkin saying, “Your presence is requested in the master bathroom from 8:35 to 8:42 p.m.” Chill little splits of champagne in the sink, light some candles, and wear nothing but high heels and clean fragrant skin under your bathrobe. When your guest arrives, he’ll be so impressed with your ‘hostessing’ skills that the party will be rocking in no time—and your kids won’t even know you’ve gone.
Games are fun, especially when something exciting is at stake. Play gin rummy, poker or Scrabble with your partner and let the winner cash in for backrubs, foot massages or any sexual favor of choice.
Many North Shore couples use fantasy and erotica to get their fires burning. Making up sexy stories, reading romantic literature aloud, or watching scenes from a steamy movie arouses the imagination as well as the libido. The brain is the biggest sex organ, so why not give it some fresh material?”
Marjie Killeen makeitbetter.net
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