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I Met a Guy But he Doesn’t Speak my Language. Could it Ever Work?

Holly from Dorval asks…Lava365 Ask the Expert

I’m English speaking but living in Quebec for work. I’ve met a gorgeous guy and have gone on a few dates with him, but he speaks almost only French and communication is definitely a problem. If we don’t speak the same language but there’s a spark, is there any hope for us? I’m going to French classes for my job which will help me a bit, but it’s a problem right now. Help!


How do I Know if my Breakup was a Mistake?

Erik from London asks…How do I know if my breakup was a mistake?

A few weeks ago I broke up with my girlfriend. I sort of had a panic attack and just thought we were moving too fast and everything was happening too soon. She was talking about living together and how we would get married one day and all this. Ever since I haven’t been able to stop thinking about her and think I made a big mistake. She was really mad at me and cried a lot when it all happened and I don’t know what to do now. How can I get her back?


I’m an Alpha Woman and Don’t Want to Change for a Guy

Yuliah from New Jersey asks…Lava365 Ask the Expert

I’m a take charge kind of girl and have no problem approaching guys. I’ve been told in the past (by someone I’m obviously no longer dating) that I can be a little intimidating and that guys think it’s a turn off. I don’t want to change for a guy, especially one I haven’t even met, but also don’t want to scare guys off. What should I do?

Hey Yuliah! I have a friend who’s great looking, very personable and very single. Why? She’s a little intimidating, like you. And, when I’ve talked to her about it she says exactly what you say, “I don’t want to change for a guy.” I shoot back, “So you won’t expect him to change for you either, not even a little?” She’s less than positive about that.


My Boyfriend Has Been Texting His Ex. Should I Confront Him?

Jazmin from London asks…Lava365 Ask the Expert

I’ve seen my boyfriend’s phone receive a few texts from his ex recently. My boyfriend was going through a tough time with his dad and I think he might’ve asked his ex for advice. Why would he go to her for counselling? They dated a long time ago and I’ve been with him for 2 years. It’s hurtful to think I’m not giving him enough support or that his ex is giving him more than I can. Should I confront him about it?


I Never Get a Call After a First Date. What am I Doing Wrong?

Charmaine from Kitchener asks…Lava365 Ask the Expert

I’m about to give up on dating altogether. For some reason, everything seems to go really well on the first date but there have been 5 dates in a row now that just never call me back. I’ve thought it over a million times and can’t think of what I’m doing wrong. The conversation is good, I think the guy seems interested, but then I never hear anything after that. It’s getting depressing at this point.

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