Just Friends or Something More? 6 Signs She Really Likes You
This one’s for all the guys out there who aren’t sure whether or not a girl is into you. Maybe you’re coworkers. Maybe you’re friends. Whatever the case may be, this post should help you start seeing the signs she really likes you… or realize you really are just friends.
1. She’s Touchy-Feely With You
Women are naturally more affectionate than men, but keep an eye out to see if she’s extra touchy-feely when it comes to you. Does she seem to create situations or make excuses so she can stand, sit or be close to you? Does she hug you both “hello” and “goodbye” when everyone else just waves or gives the typical nod greeting? If you find she’s touchy-feely with you, more than other people are, there’s a good chance that she may be interested in something more than friendship. On the other hand, you should continue to read the other signs just in case she’s just the hugging type.
2. She Cancels Plans to Be With You
If you’re “just friends”, you should get treated pretty similarly to how she treats her other friends – guys or girls. When you text her to see if she wants to hang out, does she drop everything else in order to make time for you? If she’s blowing off her other friends to come and hang with you – there might be something to it.
3. She Texts You (or Calls You) “Good Morning” and “Goodnight”
Did she all of a sudden start to text you to say “good morning” or “goodnight”, even when you just finished hanging out? If you’re the first thing she’s thinking of when she wakes up in the morning, so much so to the point where she feels the need to text you without really needing a reason, she might be interested. If the last text she sends at night is to wish you sweet dreams, you’re likely venturing outside of the friend zone.
4. She Asks About Your Dating Life, But Never Tries to Set You Up
Does it seem like she’s trying to keep tabs on where you’re going and who you’re going with, but never wants to help you meet someone new? She might simply be indifferent or doesn’t know anyone to set you up with… but she might also be trying to see where you’re at in your love life and avoid setting you up with anyone other than herself.
5. Suddenly She Finds Your Jokes Way Funnier Than Before
If you’ve been friends for a while and all of a sudden she starts finding you so much funnier than before, something could be up. That, or you might actually be getting funnier. Look to see whether or not she laughs at all your jokes, even the lame ones, and watch her body language while she does it. If she leans in to touch your arm or brace herself while laughing, she might be reacting more intensely to your comedy gold because she’s attracted to you now.
6. She Jokes About “What if You Two Were Together”
They say that most jokes contain at least a sliver of the truth, and this particular sign is one to really watch for. If she’s regularly joking about you two being a couple or jokingly asking about hypothetical relationship questions involving the two of you, she may be feeling out the situation to see how you react. There are only two reasons to regularly joke about being in a relationship with someone. 1) The concept is absolutely hilarious and would be such a disaster that it justifies the joke or 2) She actually wants to be in a relationship with you.
We hope these signs she really likes you help you figure it out! We’d also love to hear your stories. Have you ever not known if a (girl)friend liked you as more than a friend?