Fellas, Here’s How Not To Drown After You Break The Ice
There’s always that little moment of awkwardness after you meet a woman and you’re not sure when to dive in to ask for her number.I mean, you can’t just abruptly end your conversation to ask for her digits. It needs to be a smooth transition; and this transition can sometimes be the deal breaker when it comes down do the girl actually giving you her number. It can be a lot less awkward than you think, and there’s lot of ways to break the ice with a girl and get score her digits. Here are five ways to make it happen:
1. You’re Ready To Head Out
You’re with your friends, they need to leave but you’re in the middle of a conversation with this girl. At this point, you’ve probably shared some information with each other, so casually tell her you’re being forced to leave and ask if she would mind giving her your number. It’s the smoothest trick, and there’s zero awkwardness to deal with after.
2. Ask Her Some Personal Questions
Girls generally don’t just give their numbers out to anyone. So try and get to know her a little and make her feel like you want to get to know her. Ask her personal questions about her life that don’t require too much depth in the answers. Tell her she sounds really interesting and you would like to get to know her better, and if you could take her number.
3. You Want To Carry On The Conversation Later
If you’re nervous about asking for her number, decide to head out just as the conversation is getting better. This may sound a little risky, but it can sometimes ease the awkwardness. Tell her you have to be up early in the morning, you have a dog to feed back home… anything you have to work with. But before you leave, you want to take her number so you can meet for coffee later and continue the conversation. If the conversation was that good, she’ll have no problem passing it over.
4. You Would Love To Get To Know Her Better
You broke the ice with this girl, you’re having a great time together, as soon as you see a gap in the conversation and it’s getting close to closing time, add in that you’re having a really great time and you want to get to know her better and take her out on a date…”We should exchange phone numbers and make that happen.” And you’re all set.
5. Let’s Keep This Going
Watch for the cues: Is she smiling? Is she engaged with your conversation? If things are going well after you’ve broken the ice let the situation run its course for a while. Then casually add in how well you guys get along and how much you have in common. Ask her what she thinks about you guys continuing with this, and that maybe you should exchange numbers and see what happens.
They key to getting the phone number is to have a conversation after the ice breaks and see what happens. During the conversation you’ll get a better idea of whether or not she’s interested in you or not. When one of you needs to leave, or if there’s a break in the conversation that’s a good opportunity to ask for the number.