Dating Younger Women Vs. Dating Older Women

dating a younger womenWhen comparing side-by-side dating younger women and dating older women, you will notice that there are a lot of differences and similarities. I think that in any case both have their positive and negatives and it doesn’t matter which way you go.

It’s all about your preference. Just know that you can easily have both type of women, but here are some points to help you decide which is better for you:

 

 

Younger Women (18-28)

The Approach:

If you’re looking to date a younger woman then you need to make sure that your energy level is high. Younger girls tend to be a little more outgoing and a little more high energy. In order to get the attention of these women, you need to be able to keep up with banter and follow a conversation, because it may go fast.

The First Date:

If you end up getting this woman’s number then I suggest do some sort of activity date. This would include things like hiking, picnic, arcade, etc. A lot of these women are being taken on dinner dates by men and it gets boring.

When you can do something different it shows uniqueness and you become the exception. Plan something that will stand out from the rest and she won’t forget it.

Sex:

The sex will be fun, but don’t expect her to be as kinky and wild as you’d like. This woman is younger and therefore might have less experience in bed. Keyword: might. There’s always the chance you can get someone who has been in multiple relationships and therefore has experimented more.

But, for this girl you might want to ease your way to anything out of the norm.

Hanging Out with Her Friends:

There’s a good chance she has a lot. Most younger women do because they are going out all the time and need a big support group for their “20’s problems.” Make sure you befriend all of her friends when you meet them because those girls are extremely important to her.

Living Space:

I’d be surprised if she didn’t have at least 1 roommate. In the younger years we are low on cash so we need to pitch a tent with someone else. Privacy might be an issue so let’s hope you have a place to have her over with no interruptions.

Older Women (28 and up)

The Approach:

This approach is much easier. You don’t have to play many games with older women because they have been around the block. Instead, be very honest and forward with your intentions.

They will appreciate this more because of all the nonsense approaches they have faced over the years. Not only will they admire your courage, but they will also be turned on by your seductive ways.

The First Date:

Older women have had their share of parties and wild dates. At this age she just wants to  meet a man she can connect with. Keeping that in mind, take this woman out to a nice dinner- a quiet jazz lounge, or anywhere else that is low-key. Conversation that is deep and connecting will be your big goal for this one.

Sex:

The sex will be fantastic. Why? Because, she has been around the block. She knows what pleases you and she knows what pleases her. You can take the mystery out of the equation. Feel free to indulge in more risqué moves and get ready to go all night long because she might not have had a man in a while that can!

Hanging Out with Her Friends:

As women get older, I’ve notice their social circle begins to shrink. They start to see more value in tight knit relationships with a few girls, rather than a big group of superficial connections. When meeting her friends, it’s even more important to impress her because she might only have a few and those few are her best buds.

Living Space:

Chances are she lives alone. That’s a plus for you. Even though this is the case, you want to make sure that you two get out of the house and do fun things. You don’t want to “just hang” at each other’s places because it’s comfortable. Instead, do it less frequently and save the house dates for a more sexy occasion.

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