5 Reasons To Make The First Move
Working up the courage to make the first move on someone you’re interested in can put a lot of stress on the nervous system. Trying to decide what you should say, how you should act, or even thinking about what their response will be is a lot of stress.
With all the stress that comes with being the first to go for it, it can also have a few benefits too. Enough benefits to leave you thinking that being the one to make the first move might not be so bad after all. Below you will see why you should brush off the nerves and take the leap.
5. It Will Show Off Your Confidence
Everyone is attracted to confidence. If you take the leap and make the first move, you will radiate confidence and it’s almost guaranteed there will be instant attraction.
4. You Can Take The Lead
Making the first move means that you get to do what you feel comfortable with most. When you approach the situation it’s up to you to use the moves or topics you feel most comfortable and confident in. You’ll feel less awkward than you would if you were following someone else’s lead.
3. You Have The Upper Hand
You made the first move, you wear the crown. Take charge of the situation and direct it how YOU want to. It’s a lot more fun when you get decide what comes next, or if you want to say no to their decisions and move on to something different. This is your situation after all.
2. You Won’t Leave With Regrets
If both of you are too shy to make the first move, then both of you are going to leave feeling down and wishing you had done something while you had the chance. By making the first move, you’ll leave the situation knowing you gave it a shot. The worst that can happen is that you get turned down, and really, that’s not a big deal.
1. You Can Feel Less Awkward
Following someone else’s lead can be really awkward sometimes. Trying to impress them with your response, or just trying to keep it cool. The person who makes the first move has confidence and you need to try and match that. If you’re the one making the first move, you already have the confidence, and you can breeze right through it!
Never shy away from going after what you want. Regardless of the outcome, you’ll leave feeling happy and satisfied knowing you did something about it. So go get ‘em tiger!