5 Interests Women Want You to Have and Why
Women don’t all like the same things about men. Some women like dark hair, some like light hair. Some women prefer tall men, other women prefer short men. But there are specific interests that most women look for in a man that make them feel confident in their decision to date them. With that said, here are five interests that women want men to have and why:
1. Career Focused
It’s a stability thing. Women look for security in a man, and it’s not because they don’t want to work or they are looking for someone with a lot of money. Women want a man who is stable in his career because it gives them a sense of financial security. Your interest in your career tells women that being financially stable is important to you.
Women are attracted to men who take care of themselves and put effort into their physical fitness. Fitness signifies being healthy, living longer and looking better. That in itself is attractive. It doesn’t mean you need to be a jacked up body builder, but a little effort goes a long way.
Women are maternal by nature, and naturally attracted to family oriented feelings. If you take extra effort to focus on your family (spending time with them, looking out of them etc.) women look at that as a trait you will carry into the future when you start a family of your own. It ties in with the idea of security. Women like to know they will be set for the future.
4. An Artistic Hobby
Being into cars or sports is great, and women don’t dismiss that. But having an interest in an artistic hobby like music, art or something else that’s creative is a huge turn on. Women like smart men, and having an interest in something artistic is a huge turn on. It just shows that you have a well-rounded appreciation for other things aside from typical male interests like sports and beer. Although not all men have an interest sports and beer, it’s just refreshing when women find a man who is into something different.
The 1950’s has left the building several years ago, and men are starting to take on some of the domestic work women were supposed to do way back in the day. A man who can cook is a real catch. There is nothing better than having a man cook for a woman. To women, it says that you don’t mind pitching in with the domestic stuff, and that the pressure to manage the household is not all on her. Plus, having someone cook for you is pretty great.
When it comes to interests, women expect the typical for men. Sports, going out with their friends, drinking beer and other things that are stereotypically associated with males. So when you start making an effort to really show off the other interests you have, it makes women feel more assured, and it’s refreshing. So don’t hide your interests around women, whatever they may be.